When talking to children about the cost of living crisis, it’s important to use language that is appropriate for their age and understanding. Remember, the goal is to help children understand the situation in a way that is informative and supportive, not to scare them. It’s a good idea though to help children understand that while things may be tough right now, there are ways to cope and things will get better in the future. Financial matters can be complicated and it’s important to keep things simple and age appropriate. That way things are less likely to be misunderstood. Also, you want children to enjoy learning, so keeping the level appropriate and making things fun are really helpful.
As the rising cost of living continues to stretch budgets with little signs of slowing down, it can be an extremely worrying time for many households across the country. This is especially true for families and can create questions that are difficult for parents to answer.
Parents naturally want to protect their children from any worries or anxieties about the world, but it’s all too easy for children to pick up snippets of what’s happening in the news in various aspects of their life – whether it’s from the playground or conversations overheard at home. Encouraging an understanding of finances and financial independence is key, so it’s well worth spending time working on that.
Rhiannon Philps, a personal finance expert at NerdWallet, believes that, rather than avoid the difficult conversations altogether, it’s best to talk to children and help them gain a better understanding of the current climate, as it may help them feel more at ease hearing it one to one from a trusted parent or guardian.
Below, Rhiannon discusses how parents can tackle the topic of money with young family members, and how to be realistic about any financial sacrifices parents may need to take over the coming months:
- Strike the balance
“Honesty is always the best policy, and while ensuring your child is aware of the realities of the rising cost of living is important, it is also crucial to avoid unnecessary panic or worry, and strike the right balance between explaining the seriousness of the situation without alarming them.
“At the moment, while it is not necessary for a child to be too concerned about the intricate details of budgeting and saving, it’s a good idea to make your child aware of the increase in heating, petrol, groceries, and other essential items.
“Be clear with children if the current climate means you have to cut back on some of their favourite brands at the supermarket, or if you need to take them to more budget-friendly clothing stores to pick out new items. Reassure them – but don’t promise – that this should only be temporary and help them to understand how important it is to appreciate all that they do still have, rather than what they don’t.”
- Be realistic
“It’s wise to prepare them sooner rather than later as certain sacrifices may need to be made over the coming months, like cutting back on weekend or half-term activities, such as swapping pricey pastimes like a cinema trip for a day exploring local walks or visiting a local free-entry museum.
“This will hopefully help children realise that parents don’t have access to unlimited wealth and that you don’t need to spend a lot of money in order to have a fun time as a family.”
- Be wary of shock value
“More often than not, children will consume a lot of information from their peers or social media platforms which can often be written to shock and generate headlines. Both of these are notorious for exaggerating or expanding on the facts of a story or subject, and should not be how a child is gaining knowledge of the current crisis.
“Depending on their age, sit your child down for an honest conversation on the issues that are most concerning to them, and try your best to reduce any concerns or worries that they have heard from peers or online.
“Point them in the direction of child-friendly websites or programs that help outline the most pressing issues in easy-to-digest language, and reassure them that you are always available to answer or tackle any questions or concerns they have.”
- Teach them about budgeting
“Parents can use the cost of living crisis as an opportunity to educate children on the importance of budgeting and saving for a rainy day. Highlighting different issues surrounding inflation, energy bills, how interest rates affect things like mortgage repayments and credit cards, and even how inflation works will give them a better perspective on the crisis and is something they are unlikely to be exposed to within school settings.
“For older children, this is also an opportunity to help guide them to set up their own financial accounts, such as a children’s bank card or a prepaid card. This can help them learn how to budget, manage their finances, and understand the satisfaction associated with saving money to purchase something for themselves.
“While some children are simply given pocket money or an allowance, now is a great opportunity to appoint age-appropriate chores in order to actually earn the money themselves.”
- Involve children in making cost-effective savings around the house
“Budgeting doesn’t have to be boring, and there are a multitude of ways you can involve children with budgeting tasks around the house.
“Try setting children a task to plan budget-friendly meals with a certain amount of money, or get them involved in cooking large batches to freeze for a later date as this helps teach them an effective way to save money and reduce food waste which will be beneficial in later life.
“In order to help them understand the energy crisis a little more, it’s also worth setting them the task of ensuring no electronic devices or switches are left on unnecessarily around the house – which can also be incentivised with rewards.”
